Dear Selfless Esteem, You usually suggest writing in a journal. Can you say more about that? I'm so tired at the end of the ...

I am at least 18 years old.

My dear readers, for the first post of the year, I want to start 2024 with gratitude. Who’s with me? (• •) / “In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus toward you” (1 ...

I’m losing patience with my elderly mother. I’ve been taking care of her and she’s so stubborn. My brothers and sisters can’t help because they live out of state. She’s really getting on my nerves.

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My husband and I have been together now for over 20 years – whilst we get along and are good friends, I feel we simply don’t make time for each other anymore. I can see us getting to the stage when ...

I think everyone can relate to this struggle. Here are some ideas for how to stay positive when you’re having a bad day, but this isn’t an all-inclusive list. I invite my readers to leave comments ...

Loaning money to family is a tough decision. Let’s look at each point in your letter and then address them. Your relative might have to close her business because of the loss during the pandemic. You ...

Does the “Let Them” theory contradict the Bible? Doesn’t the Bible say that we should motivate each other to do good works? It also says to make disciples all over the world. In my life, I’ve even had ...

That’s a good question. Whether it’s a family member, coworker, or significant other, narcissistic behavior can put a strain on the relationship. Narcissism is a label often used casually, but it’s ...

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Will I ever heal from childhood trauma? It’s been decades and I still feel triggered by reminders. It’s affected my work and relationships because I can’t focus and I have relationship issues. You ...